Secret Wishes Of Filipino Wedding Photographer
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Date: Tue, 27 Jul 2010 |
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Whether they admit it or not, Filipino wedding photographers would want you and your partner to make their work easier. No, not by posing extensively all the time. Philippine wedding photography is so unique because of those memorable and non-posed shots that say a thousand words. What they actually want is for you to do those rare in-the-moment episodes during your wedding before the frazzles of the day take hold of you. To ensure this, Filipino wedding photographers share some reminders on how one can get those pictures that will not only last but will also be valued for a lifetime.
During Preparation
- Your makeup area should be right at the back of a bay window. The illumination from the ambient light outside the room will be very dramatic.
- You should position your gown right behind you so that the wedding photographer can shoot your reflection in the mirror with the gown as backdrop. If this is not possible, always ensure that the position of the gown is in the same angle as your makeup area.
- Always see to it that your hotel room lights are working, especially the bed lamps. They are superb highlights for your accessories pictures.
- Make it a point to have your maid of honor and bridesmaids present (if you're the bride) or the best man and the groomsmen (if you're the groom). It is nice to have interaction shots in the room during your preparations.
- Flowers are key accessories but can arrive notoriously late. Make sure that the flowers arrive earlier than the wedding photographers. It is quite challenging to take outstanding shots without these key accessories.
During the Ceremony
- If the church has swivel doors and they are not very heavy (like those of San Agustin Church), always insist on a dramatic entrance. Assign two people to open the doors as soon as the bridal march is played. You need to ensure, though, that you are the only one by the door for a dramatic silhouette shot that your Filipino wedding photographer would shoot. This has actually become a classic Philippine wedding photograph.
- If it is possible, the bride should walk alone and meet her parents midway. This is especially cinematic when there is a choir loft that gives a bird's eye view for what they call the "Princess Diana" shot.
- Walk slowly down the aisle. This is your moment; savor it.
- If you have the tendency to cling to your parents when walking then let them hold you. Don't cross your arms with theirs since that looks awkward in pictures.
- If you will kiss your parents at the end of the aisle, just do a beso-beso (cheek to cheek) or a Park Avenue air kiss so as not to smear your veil with lipstick. Don't lift your veil anymore.
- As you reach your seat, place the bouquet on top of your pew. Better hold your partner's hand or arm; it will definitely photograph better than arms sagging under the weight of a bouquet.
- From time to time, look at the wedding photographer on your side. A reminder, though: this should be done sparingly since the presiding priest or minister might scold you for unabashedly enjoying shots rather than the homily.
- Occasionally glance at your partner. Your Filipino wedding photographer will not miss that lovely stare.
- Hold your partner's hands. Better yet, kiss the hand of your future wife. At times, kiss the side of her head.
- Memorize your vows or, better still, write your own - it will certainly elicit a more natural and heartfelt reaction from your partner. It is better to be looking at your partner than be looking at the missalette.
- When exchanging rings, utter the words first then put on the ring. This will give the photographer time to capture your expression and do a close up of the rings while they are being put on.
- Do not forget to remove the price tag on your shoes even if they are that expensive. Yes, some people actually forget to remove the tag; it is certainly a serious faux pas even if the wedding photo becomes a conversation piece of sorts. But if you don’t expect it to be part of your proofs.
- When the cord is placed on top of your veil, make sure that it is not blocking your face. Tugging it discreetly down to one's bodice level will do the trick
- Your first kiss is one of the highlights of the ceremony. A peck might seem a little prudish while Frenching the bride might be more appropriate in the comfort and the privacy of your suite. A good, photogenic kiss should be long enough for photographers to capture it.
- After the kiss, you can hug your partner or dip your bride, or kiss her hand or forehead. This is your moment; get the most mileage out of it.
- Don't remove your veil during the pictorial. A veil is picturesque, especially if captured during windy moments.
During the Reception
- As soon as you are introduced and the door of the reception is opened, kiss the hand of your partner as you are walking.
- Always make it a point to get guests to go to your table instead of table-hopping. This is more convenient for you, and more group shot variations can be taken-not to mention this helps get rid of messy tables and half-eaten courses. Make sure that your table is easily accessible.
- Don't release the doves indoors. Always do it after the recessional. It makes for better wedding pictures and is less cruel to the birds. Butterflies are au courant these days and seem a good alternative to doves - make sure, though, that the bridesmaids are not afraid of bugs.
- Putting the garter on by hand is passé. Try using your teeth for a change, unless the lucky bridesmaid expresses violent objections.
- Don't throw a single bouquet. Single Filipinas will not catch them unless they are in their mid-40s. Do a game or throw a dozen and just mark one as "it".
- Practice your first dance. A twirl here and there rather than a lame side-to-side sway will yield wonderful wedding photographs.
Again, these are just pointers that can help your Filipino wedding photographer capture the magic during your wedding. Of course, it is a must that you have a rapport with your chosen photographer. The best thing you can do is to scout around, join wedding resource groups, ask friends, and search Kasal.com’s Philippine wedding photography directory. Most importantly, talk to the photographer who will be personally taking pictures of your wedding. Happy planning and happy posing!
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